Tuesday, September 29, 2020
Betty and Chrissy
Monday, September 28, 2020
43 years ago today...
... Christopher Alexander Punnett "shuffl'd off this mortal coil", but remains present in the hearts and memories of many of us who adored him. So present, that there have been grandchildren born after he died who have vivid memories of him! From time to time, family at home will meet up someone who still talks about him. His contemporaries have mostly all trod on, but some of those young people in the villages who hailed him as Daddy Chris do, I trust, still recall him lovingly. He was extraordinary in the most ordinary of ways.
I recently learned the word topophilia... it means love of place (From Greek topos "place" and -philia, "love of"). It suggests a strong sense of place, which often becomes mixed with the sense of cultural identity among certain people and a love of certain aspects of such a place. W. H. Auden used the term in his 1948 introduction to John Betjeman's poetry book Slick but Not Streamlined, stressing that the term "has little in common with nature love" but depended upon a landscape infused with a sense of history. It seemed to me to describe that ineffable connection that we Punnetts have with the landscape of our Valley, and of our country, as distanced as many of us now are.
"There is St. Vincent, the most beautiful of the Caribee
isles, with it’s bold, sharp, and abrupt mountains, its deep intervening
romantic glens, and its lofty and rocky coasts. The delicious valley of
Buccament is the admiration of all travellers. The famed botanic garden is the
theme of general praise; and the island stands high in reputation as a healthy
station."
Simmond's Colonial Magazine and Foreign Miscellany, Volume 1 ~ 1844
"… a visit to the delicious valley of Buccament..."
Between Slavery and Freedom: Special Magistrate John Anderson's Journal
of St Vincent During the Apprenticeship
“My father
considered a walk among the mountains
as the equivalent of churchgoing.”
Daddy and, later, his sons (Colin especially) regularly hunted in those mountains. Years ago when Mummy was still alive we (John, Mark and I with Mummy, as I recall) stopped on a drive to North Leeward and stretched our legs on an interior road near Rose Hall (I think), and a gentleman on a donkey asked if we were "Mister Chrissy children"... he told us stories of Daddy's hunting, and he even remembered the names of his faithful hunting dogs!
Daddy was well known for a complete lack of talent for, and interest in, dancing, having apparently ended up on the dance floor with Lady Graham when she foolhardily insisted he accompany her in a dance! But, along with stories of tea meetings and other island traditions, he talked about country people dancing the quadrille, so I looked and found a YouTube clip of Caribbean people putting their spin on the quadrille.
quadrille - European style https://youtu.be/OGgdGBMLFxE
He was talented, brave, kind, and eminently decent. He revered Abraham Lincoln. He was non-judgmental, he was fair, he was honest, he was funny. He was full of love. He was full of love. The Heavens are richer for his stardust.